Arie Luyendyk Jr.Latest News and Opinion
Posted Sunday 3/18/18 at 3:44AM EDT
For the People's Britt Robertson: Bachelor Arie Luyendyk Jr. was "kind of like a jerkface" when I met him
“I was hoping he would tell me who he chooses and he did not," Robertson tells The Associated Press of meeting Arie, her fellow ABC star. "Then he was kind of like a jerkface, I’m not gonna lie...He acted like taking a picture with me was just the most painful thing he’s ever done. And I’m literally thinking to myself, ‘bro this is what you signed up for; you’re not an actor, you’re not a director, you’re not creative. You’re here for us to take photos and make fun of you. That’s all you are: a show pony. Marry some girl and make us happy.’”
Posted Thursday 3/15/18 at 9:38PM EDT
Bachelorette Becca tells Ellen "my brain just kind of shut off" after Arie broke up with her
Becca Kufrin, who begins filming The Bachelorette tonight, tells Ellen DeGeneres: "Watching it back, I didn't realize that I said, 'Just leave' or 'Get out' that many times. I felt like in the moment, my brain just kind of shut off and I was so shocked that I didn't take in everything. But watching it back now I'm like, 'Tell him to get out faster!'" ALSO: Ex-Bachelor Charlie O'Connell gets engaged to Playboy Playmate Anna Sophia Berglund.
Posted Tuesday 3/13/18 at 10:17PM EDT
Kareem Abdul-Jabbar: The Bachelor's unedited breakup "crossed a line that shredded the fantasy we were all willing to agree to"
The NBA legend and pop-culture critic says of Arie Luyendyk Jr.'s uneidted, split-screen Bachelor breakup with Becca K.: "This may not be sexual harassment, but it definitely appears to be emotional harassment encouraged by the producers. Go means, Go! Worse was Chris Harrison’s campaign of damage control as the host tried to justify the show’s bad behavior. He didn’t seem to understand that what they did crossed a line that shredded the fantasy we were all willing to agree to — against our rational thinking — that the show’s ultimate goal was to give love a chance. But those scenes, and Chris Harrison’s unbridled glee in declaring this was 'reality television history,' revealed a malevolence and disregard that shocked and embarrassed us. Instead of being on a romantic journey together, we had tossed one of our own into the gladiatorial arena to be devoured for our amusement. But we were not amused."
Posted Monday 3/12/18 at 2:09PM EDT
Juan Pablo: Arie Luyendyk Jr. "smashed me" as the worst-ever Bachelor
"You know, I feel bad for him," says Juan Pablo Galavis, the previous most-hated Bachelor, who didn't actually watch Arie's season. "Because at the end of the day… you just get to be with that person for (around) 40 hours, so you don't know them that well."
Posted Friday 3/09/18 at 11:05PM EST
The Bachelor is an "anti-woman embarrassment," and should be dumped in the #MeToo and Time's Up era
Allison Winn Scotch, a Bachelor franchise superfan until she quit watching five years, says "I found that I felt liberated from those two hours on Monday which fueled a certain toxicity in my life. What can I tweet that will be both hilarious and cutting and people will RT the most? I felt better about my place as a woman in the world, not snarking or disparaging other women in public (or at all) and not endorsing a show that got off on humiliating its contestants, especially the female ones. And this is only my sense and I speak only for me, but it’s tough to reconcile being a champion for #MeToo and Time’s Up and then frantically tweeting comments about other women every Monday evening."
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Posted Friday 3/09/18 at 7:02AM EST
Charlize Theron: “I basically feel like I am dating The Bachelor, like, the show"
“On Monday nights, because my kids can’t read a clock yet so I get them to bed at like 5:45 and then I open a bottle of wine, take a bath, I get all ready and that’s my date night," she tells James Corden. "I date the show.” When asked who would be her pick, she clarified: “No, I don’t want to be on the show. I just want to watch.”
Posted Thursday 3/08/18 at 1:41AM EST
The Bachelor would be better off if it dumped Chris Harrison
Harrison was 30 when The Bachelor premiered in 2002. He was about the same age as The Bachelors. But at age 46, Harrison has been struggling to keep up with his "host-as-pal" persona. He seems more concerned with The Bachelor franchise, and not The Bachelor himself -- or as Willa Paskin put in her review of Monday's finale, Harrison is "an emotional succubus posing as an empath.” Indeed, as Kathryn VanArendonk notes, Harrison is "a man whose onscreen personality has long since been scooped out and replaced with corporate-speak and a burning desire for better ratings and social-media engagement. He is a human-shaped instantiation of network notes." She adds that Harrison's approach to The Bachelor is stuck in 2002, and needs a shakeup. "His tone, his demeanor, and his transparent pleasure at hyping a calamitous breakup have become the embodied tone of The Bachelor," she says. "Outside, it’s all solicitous worry for the people involved. Inside, it’s a complete contempt for the softies who think maybe you shouldn’t, say, cast racist suitors for the first black Bachelorette. If Harrison is a puppet, what I’m arguing is that the strings are now way too visible."
- Harrison isn't worried about the criticism: "When people are angry, it just means they care...it means it struck a chord"
- Minnesota lawmaker drafts bill to ban Arie Luyendyk Jr. from the state
- ABC exec on Bachelor diversity: "We look at everything, and diversity is not only ethnicity, but also it’s the types of women that we had..."
- Arie on Bekah Martinez posting his DMs: "It shows her immaturity"
- Kelly Ripa doesn't think Arie and Lauren will make it 100 days
Posted Wednesday 3/07/18 at 4:45PM EST
Arie Luyendyk Jr.: Unedited Bachelor footage was "unfair" to me -- producers asked me to stay in the room
"The way the breakup was shown, I think, in its unedited version, was a little unfair to me," Luyendyk told Entertainment Tonight. Later, when asked to clarify his comment since he had previously said he didn't watch the finale, Luyendyk told reporters: "We did not watch the finale, but I see a lot of comments on social media about me not leaving the room. What I will say is... I was asked to stay in the room by producers." ALSO: Here is every excuse Arie has made on talk shows since the finale.
Posted Wednesday 3/07/18 at 1:41PM EST
The Bachelor failed in its attempt to do damage control after Monday's disastrous finale
Chris Harrison's "After the Final Rose" sitdown with Arie Luyendyk Jr., Becca Kuffrin and Lauren Burnham only made things worse. ALSO: Arie says dumping Becca on camera gave her the "opportunity" to be Bachelorette.
Posted Tuesday 3/06/18 at 9:38PM EST
ABC exec defends use of unedited Bachelor footage, says Arie Luyendyk Jr. wasn't forced to break up on camera
ABC reality chief Robert Mills explains the decision to show the finale breakup in real time using a split screen: "Once we saw the footage it was a two-second thing," he says. "Instant. We really needed everyone to see this and have kind of the same reaction we were having. It's like the old saying, there's three sides to every story, yours, mine and the truth. And no one's lying. And that's sort of the case here, where the more of that that we can capture, so everyone can actually see it, and not say, 'Well, I said this,' 'No, actually I said this.' Last night, there was no doubt as to what went down there, between Arie and Becca. You now know everything, whether you agree with it, or disagree with it. You see it all, and you're able to make your decision on how you feel about it." On the accusations that Arie was forced to break up on camera, Mills says "of course he could have done it off camera if he wanted to," adding: "You can't force somebody into doing something."
- The finale looked even more horrible through the dark lens of the #MeToo era
- Anti-Arie Lyuendyk Jr. billboards went up in Los Angeles and Minnesota
- Zach Braff tweets: "I don’t wanna look like this f*cker anymore"
- Erin Andrews is live-tweeting The Bachelor finale, but is holding back her true feelings because "my Fox boss would kill me"
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Posted Tuesday 3/06/18 at 2:34PM EST
The Bachelor's use of unedited, dual-camera footage was a cruel new reality TV "innovation"
Last night's finale "made for insanely great and awful television," says Willa Paskin. "The whole episode was beyond canny," she adds. "The decision to use unedited footage would have made this a buzzy episode in and of itself, but it was a choice that fit the material: Only at full length do we get to see the accruing aggression of Arie’s attentiveness, the way his hanging around becomes so unappealingly claustrophobic. It also made the most out of the material, stretching what might have been a five-minute sequence to 20 minutes, while milking Becca’s relative restraint for all it was worth, getting to be unquestionably 'real' and lighting up social media with an 'innovation' in a long-running franchise."
- Bachelor fans are sending Venmo donations to Becca K.
- Monday's finale proved that reality TV is not always staged: "The episode captured a woman’s swift transition from happy and hopeful to angry and distraught"
- The Bachelor finale inspired a brutal editing war on Wikipedia
- "Deep down, I knew," Becca K. said in a "savage" tweet this morning
- Bekah Martinez: Arie DM'd me after he dumped Becca
- Bachelor finale gets season-high ratings
Posted Tuesday 3/06/18 at 7:31AM EST
The Bachelor's trolling finale proves that it's a "abyss of meaning, vacant but transfixing"
Some viewers and Bachelor alums were outraged by the brutal footage shown on Monday night's season finale. But when you really think about it, says Samantha Allen, "none of this matters...The Bachelor is an abyss of meaning, vacant but transfixing. I don’t doubt that Becca K.’s heartbreak is genuine. But she is just one more spurned contestant who, in all likelihood, will go on to become the Bachelorette, collect a five-to-six figure check, and start a failed relationship of her very own. The cycle will continue, nothing will change, and I will still watch." Allen adds: The Bachelor has always been an exercise in forcing human beings to conform to rigid and arbitrary rules for finding romance, and yet we still act scandalized every time one of these relationships fails spectacularly. It is simultaneously thrilling and depressing to watch contestants get right to the brink of realizing that the system they inhabit is broken, like witnessing Westworld robots edge dangerously closer to self-awareness."
Posted Saturday 3/03/18 at 1:25AM EST
Can the "nothing you've seen before" Bachelor finale overwrite the memory of Arie Luyendyk Jr.'s dull season?
Really, it would take some effort to overcome the memory of Arie, "the most boring, underwhelming series lead in recent memory," says Kathryn VanArendonk. She adds: "After the falling ratings of the franchise’s first black lead, and the disastrous coverage of the most recent season of Bachelor in Paradise, landing on Arie felt like a deliberate choice to play it as safe as possible. Presumably the intention was that he’d be a return to Bachelor greatness, when the genre was new enough and contestants unrehearsed enough that a man-shaped wax figure in a suit was enough to fuel a reality-TV fairy tale. But we’ve now seen so many seasons of this show, so many identical buffed and polished people, that instead, Arie’s been produced and edited to become the mass-produced chain-hotel artwork of Bachelors. He’s anodyne, inoffensive, and unexciting. He’s not enough to really draw the eye, but he’s certainly not going to piss anyone off. Or make an audience feel much of anything at all." ALSO: What it means to be The Bachelor villain.
Posted Wednesday 2/28/18 at 12:25AM EST
The Bachelor's twist of bringing back an ex-boyfriend wasn't romantic, it was unsettling
"Although, as Becca points out, this entire mission could be seen as Notebook-style romantic, it actually feels decidedly unsafe," Ariana Romero says of Monday night's twist. "It’s obvious from her reaction to Ross standing in her doorway — staring at him in shock and then the camera — no one asked her if this invasion of privacy was okay. That means her location was shared against her will with someone she purposefully removed from her life. Although Ross repeatedly claims he’s thought about her nonstop since their breakup, Becca doesn’t share the same sentiments despite their seven-year dating history."
Posted Tuesday 2/27/18 at 2:03PM EST
STDs are the top reason that Bachelor applicants are rejected from the show
An excerpt from Los Angeles Times writer Amy Kaufman's new book, Bachelor Nation: Inside the World of America’s Favorite Guilty Pleasure, delves into the search and screening for potential contestants. Potential contestants who become finalists for a spot on the show have to undergo a medical examination to test for drugs and sexually transmitted diseases. If they have an STD, they are immediately eliminated. "As soon as the medical tests came back, you’d see that herpes was the biggest thing,” said Ben Hatta, former personal assistant to Bachelor creator Mike Fleiss “And sometimes you’d be the first person to tell a contestant that they had herpes. You’d be like, ‘Uh, you should call your doctor.’ Why? ‘We’re not going to be able to have you on our show, but you should call your doctor.’"
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- Arie: “I know people are going to be hard on (me.) I made a mistake. And I’m prepared for the backlash"
- Becca K. calls out Chris Harrison for tiny tent used as a "fantasy suite"